They always say that being nice never wins you over the hot women! That is unless you are in a Hollywood movie.

Sadly it is a fact that the guy next door just does not seem to attract the nice girls. So why is it that this seems to be the case?

It is strange but lots of women seem to find a spot in their hearts for the nice guys in the movie, but if they were to go and date one in real life it would be a complete turn off. It just seems that women like their men to be in charge.

So if you are a nice guy looking to find that hot woman then it is time to change your whole outlook. Being the guy next door just does not cut it in today’s society.

You can be assertive without being aggressive. So its time to put your foot down and see where it takes you.

Apparently it has been proven that the more agreeable you are to a woman and the more you let her do what she wants to in life then the less attractive you appear to her.

So why don’t you start to make the decisions. Start by telling her the next time she wants a quiet night in that you are both going out somewhere.

By all means just agree to everything that a woman says if you just want to remain as one of her friends. But if you want to take things further than this then you have to show them your assertive side I am afraid.

You may think that this approach will hurt her feelings, but you may be quietly surprised and stand more chance of winning her over. It is just another way of proving that the nice guy does not always win the girl in real life.

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